Is suffering a cause of GREATNESS ( Not being FAMOUS actually) ??....or is it EMOTIONS for a PASSION..

Suffering perhaps is the first step for happiness..

I am not great, nor is my blog. Just think in this way, can you make out any good person in any sense of life who has not suffered. It can be anything money, survival for a living, social injustice, a widow,a beggar, a childless couple, a boy who has nothing to wear (clothes, without shoes) , old lonely parents, physically handicapped person, a blind man ( who cannot see the best creations of god). You take it anything, every one has suffered in his or her means and has a story to tell, a true. And its the virtue of greatness that beckons behind. Greatness and not being "FAMOUS", its different.

Our parents, relatives, family, cousins are all great and our more than a real life heroes for us. Its not to be proud of to show it in a party of of an announcement. Some one some where is doing a unknowing charity in his or her means. Ability to share and to have a respect for other's is the best thing you can actually gift some one. The only thing that connects you with other's is your "EMOTIONS of PASSION". At times when you are left with nothing my friend, remember you have dignity to make yourself count. I can easily have one of the examples from my life related to it.


My Example :- I met a friend in my one of my older company, he was coping from a problem and needed a person to interact. To me , to actually have a true friend meant more than anything. Down the line as the years passed by we remember the "KULCHA CHOLA" and the "DAILY SAMOSA" we used to have. Though we are not working in same location as of now, but no day goes past by when i say "HAAN BE"..Then off course the "MUTUAL FRIEND" is an added advantage. Not to forget my  Old is gold type of friends.. I read some where :-

"To have a DIAMOND you actually need to have a base of GOLD to carry it"

And perhaps the gold has have had me pre occupied. I am not in a hurry to "VOMIT" everything as a token or love or respect, but down the line I want me to remember everyone who have touched me.I am indeed honored. The fact of starting a blog has helped to improve my spoken as well as my written communication, its true. I can see what I used to be some 5 years back or so, its not a marginal but huge respite. Not being satisfied with yourself and improving yourself everyday every night to be close to perfection .

 I know we cannot be perfect, else there will be no scope of improvement. and I also do not want to be the same.

To lean unlearn, then unlearn then again learn is destiny. If you are afraid of mistakes my friend, I guess you have missed out much to gain in experience. As they say higher the risk, higher the profit. Do not correlate it with money. Some of the quoted words are. Be the change you want to see. The world is a better place to live in...Last but not the least pray fr "Sarbat da Bhala"


Its a different world out there,
I have some reservations that I may not share,
Its better to close your eyes and look back,
And I cant see myself loosing like that.

With times opportunity knocks on your door,
Some time you are asleep or the electricity is no more.
They are just a reason to  keep you at bay,
Don't let anybody say "That you cant do this thing this way"

Remember there will be times when you feel down,
Trust him (God), and he will always be around.
Just close your eyes and let him (GOD) take you away,
Its the only way you pause and say "Don't look back and continue all the way"

Thanks
Dilmeet Singh

Sorry..

Love for a SCHMUCK is...

I am actually mad..and people want to be like me..

Love is fogetting to have your lunch , just to finish your 2 minute talk.
Love is waiting for hours just to get a glimplse of her,
Love is waiting with friends , to se her come out of the class,
Love is secretly admiring her, but never telling it to the one,
Love is expecting a call, that is never made.
Love is expecting the one to call you ar 12 am for the first wish of "HAPPY BIRTHDAY".
Love is waiting for the bus just to get in at the same time,
Love is asking your friends how is he or she,
Love is seeing ur cell phone for that one message of her,
Love is waiting endlessly for the moments that never came,
Love is getting a hug from your friends when you cry,
Love is going to a Gurudwara and praying for the best to happen and soon,


More importantly love is keeping him or her always first before self,
Love is respecting the feelings you share,
Love is hoping against hope,
Love is in every truth and a lie spoken to see happiness on your face,
Love is when you see she likes some one, and you respectfully bow away,
Love is for the money you save to buy a card for her from your pocket money,
Love is asking for money from your friends to get her out on a date for a movie,
Love is that first bike ride in the rain,
Love is making he or she happy no matter what it takes,
Love is respecting her and loving he or she in more than the way you know.
Love is asking your best friends for an advice,
Love is asking your elder sis or a bro for money or a bike.
Love is saying to your mom or dad that he or she is the one,
Love is asking her for a dance on her favourite number,
Love is when your heart beat thumps at 180,
Love is when you are not able to sleep,
Love is when your father or mother see you usually calm and composed,
Love  is when you know it will not happen, but still grow,
Love is doing the homework first and helping the other for completion.
Love is going to the tution in a same batch,
Love is sitting on the same bench in school.
Love is keeping her finding out the 27th letter in the dictionary to describe her,
Love is having a code word for her name,
Love is shouting on your peak to say "I LOVE YOU".
Love is when he or she puts her head on your shoulder and say "I love you".
Love is when you feel its right, ask him or her for an opinnion,
Love is when you feel mature, much more responsible than you were,
Love is when you can endlessly describe being it,
Love is when you feel , wish some one was close as it it.
Love is when you call every one for an advice,
Love is when you wear same clothes as it is,

Love is when ankur, uday say I am actually mad.
Love is when my sis says "Tu pagal hai"
Love when my elder cousin sis says " Grow up, u need a partner and not a maid"
Love is when my dad says "We will see it",
Love is when my mom sarcastically ask me "Who is she?"
Love is when Jolly says, "Tera kya hoga be".
Love is when I smile and do not have an answer to all this.

Love is complete when I say "Now its THIS"...

I swear By the BIBLE - SCHMUCK.

Respect..for the movie and more importantly the words.

Words spoken in Bible from the movie - A Walk to Remember.

Love is always patient and kind;
It is never jealous,
Love is never boastful or conceited;
It is never rude or selfish; it does not take offense,
And is not resentful.
Love takes no pleasure in other people’s sins but delights in the truth;
It is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes
. Love does not come to an end.”

Reflection of a SCHMUCK....

Reflection is deceptive. Morning and night are two different scenario.
Only perception is different. 

When I look back at time,
 I ask how was I able to do this?
The only reason I get , bricks are always made like this.
They help to make a house or a home,
never really know which one will actually say them as their own.

Every brick has a story to tell and a postion to fit in,
Solid as rock, but can easily break with a small kiss.
I mean thats how the god has always wanted us to be like it,
Never to lie and to admit that "Yes I like this".

Weak or strong is just a part of life you want to reflect,
As its the trust and respect you have for some one ,to see inside for what they get.
To be true to yourself and transparent at times,
Thats how we are designed to be, even in the lines.

We call it a simple brick, and it stick with us in every skit.
Heat, cold or rain with the warmth inside ,you can hardly fell any pain.

Happy SCHMUCK....Fiction or a reality..finger's crossed..

I got my inspiration..

I wanted to gift a girl a clock,
To see what time it its,
And I am actually waiting for her reply,
All I am getting is fried in this heat.

She asked me to be there at 11,
And forgot to mention the date, I suppose she mentioned heaven,
I already had 3 burgers and cool drink,
Come soon, else I will sink.

Don’t take it other wise but I am actually increasing my weight,
U getting late, and me having a noodles full plate.
Don’t laugh too much at me,
Pack your bags and try to escape from your balcony.

Can’t u see me standing down waiting for your,
Oh ho, do not go back I will buy a new teddy for you.
And please do not bring 2 suit cases with you,
Forgot to tell you, my trunk is already full with my shoes.

U never listen to me, and I don’t know why I still love you.
Perhaps ur bangle or your shoe have kept me pre occupied in you.
That’s the reason I forgot to say you HI!

Don’t get angry at me, and I am a bit naughty at times,
I actually love you , trust me you can buy each and every word in my lines.

Who shares happiness with a LONELY SCHMUCK ?..

Don't panic, I do not freak out. Have means to control myself.

I need to vent out my thoughts to cool my self down,
Its true I think to much, and have to heart out myself as a schmuck.
The bad experience has taken such a toll on me,
I cry like a baby , but all up there lonely.

People are actually scared and do not want a negative person to interact,
But its the only way I have to vent out all I have got.
Truly thankfull to god for what he has given me,
And I have accepted everything in his name as my destiny.

Thank you god for helping me and giving me an inspiration to write,
I can go all along like this though out the night.
"THE ONE" is such a important and holy word for me,
I guess I need to pray more to ask you and make you believe I AM SO LONELY..

Its Kinda difficult to get inside my mind to wipe the fear off,
Please hold my hand , and I know its kinda tough..

Schmuck Without a LUCK......

Wish to see you an meet you one day..I hope I am not expecting too much...

Not tired or let down, its the reason to be happy that I got some one.
Who can actually say I am the one..



I am actually not a schmuck,
Just without a luck.
People call me with different names,
All are me and I don't complain.
Some pre notions are also there in the mind.
Want to clarify I am not a despo as I may sound.

I am happy as I am and called mad by my friends,
They also admit its the experience I lack to take it to an end.
Might sound a bit cheeky to view,
Its the truth what I see and feel inside you.

Perception of me is true and I am stuck in the blues,
I want to be with the one soon, but I freak out too soon in the noon.
Trust me I am not like this always,
As destiny has denied me "The one" I wanted for all days....... 

Growing old with a SCHMUCK... I mean me..

Please smile..You look great in it..

I want to grow old with you,
Its the only wish I have got for you,
I hope I get to meet your soon,
Guess I will have to wait till noon.

Kinda shaky starter I am,
Trust me its not how you see the hell i am,
Call me schmuck or a duck,
Please dont go with a but.

I could have never ever met you,
Call it destiny, and I could never forget you.
My lines are changed and it seems nice to be optimistic,
Without your people have had started calling me sick.

What every we have is very much special,
Not changing the fact, I never could have actually asked for anything better...